Four words every commitment-phobe dreads – “Where is this going?”. It’s the opening line to that awkward conversation that no one wants to have.
It’s the defining moment of a relationship where one person(usually the girl, let’s be honest) wants to label/title what you’re doing. You’ve managed to avoid the conversation up until now, because it could potentially ruin what you have going on. Some people are happy to just go with the flow but after a while one of you will want some consistency. In the movie ‘That Awkward Moment‘ – Zac Efron refers to this situation as the ‘so moment’. He says nothing good ever follows the ‘so’…
He’d be right too.
This ‘so’ talk will decide whether you’re moving forward… or moving on!
Examples of the ‘So’:
So… what are we doing here?
So… where is this going?
So… are we in a relationship?